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Here are some of the messages we have received from people touched by this
tragedy. I'll do my best to keep this updated as new messages come in. Thanks
for your support and condolences:
tragedy. I'll do my best to keep this updated as new messages come in. Thanks
for your support and condolences:
Kristy Gough was a site to behold on a bicycle. Her upper body was as still as an untouched glass of
water. While below, her tanned muscular legs were just tapping out a beautiful tempo cadence. This is
the vision her friends, family, and team will always remember and cherish. She was one of the kindest,
and strongest women to have ever graced the Peloton. In the very large and diverse world of Cycling
her indomitable spirit was both admirable and infectious. At the Five Ring Cycling Center where Kristy
could be found completing a strenuous workout, she showed a compassion that would inspire others
around her. She'd often be seen riding the rollers, patting a struggling rider on the back, and motivating
them to complete their tasks. Kristy would win the primes, as well as the race. Yet, it was never followed
with boasting or bragging, but rather modesty, heart, and compassion. Kristy even said at one point that
she felt bad for winning so often, but truly, she never had anything to feel bad about. She worked for
everything she wanted, and she did it with charisma, class, and charm. She showed more heart then any
member of her team. As one fellow team mate so perfectly put it, "You couldn't help but be a fan". She
was one woman among a group full of men, and yet they all looked up to her. Kristy was always treated as
one of the guys, when a boyish joke was thrown her way, she managed to spin it back and throw every
one of them off balance. Of course she did it with a smile that let you know she had you cornered but in a
playful, kind and caring way. With the Olympic Trials just around the corner it was the hopes of many that
shed make it. The loss of Kristy Gough is a heartfelt one, a true tragedy that is almost too unreal to
believe. Her life touched all of those that were ever graced with her presence. She rides on in the hearts
of those who loved and cared for her, and she'll never be forgotten.
Gaelan Mundorff, Third Pillar
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Kristy's indomitable spirit was both admirable and infectious. I feel blessed and fortunate to have met
her and train with her. My favorite memories of Kristy were riding abreast on the long Sunday training
rides, boy she could REALLY put the hurt on!!!… It was very special to have her pat me on the back while
I was suffering on the rollers in the cycling gym. She had an extraordinary ability to push the limits on the
bike without showing it!!!
I have mixed feelings about the fact that I was the last one to be with her before being taken away by the
ambulance, but I want everyone to know that even with her broken body, she never stopped fighting.
Kristy was a special human being and will remain in my thoughts and prayers for the rest of my days on
this earth.
-Daniel Brasse, Third Pillar
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I'll never forget the first time I saw Kristy this season; it was at Cantua Creek, my first race of the year.
Quiet, reserved, focused, she sat calmly on her bike while we all chatted and joked around, as the field
for Cat 4 women was pretty small that day. Some of the women were asking each other who she was,
where she came from, and someone knew & mentioned she was a professional triathlete. We had fun
that first windy lap, and Kristy hung in there with us long enough to rotate through the pace line up to the
turn around.
After that, she must have finally been bored with the pace AND the talking, because as we approached
the first of two turn arounds, in one dramatic turn of the wheels, she was GONE. And I mean, "see you
later, I'm outta here, gone." My team mate yelled out jokingly, "hey, where does she think she's going?"
And we all laughed, knowing that we'd just been witness to something pretty spectacular. Later, she
completed against us at Cherry Pie, and I saw her again at Snelling.
The last time I saw Kristy was bright and early Saturday, the morning of Menlo Park Grand Prix. I did the
medical team support for the day and was unloading my medical supplies. She rolled by on her bike and
looked straight at me; I said hi, she said hi and had that look on her face like, "how do I know you?" And
that was it.
She probably didn't remember it was me, to her immediate left on the pace line that morning at Cantua
Creek, singing the first few versus of the Italian song, Ave Maria. But I do. I'll never forget that, or forget
her.
My heart aches for her mother and father, as I have an adult son that I cherish with all of my being. I off
you and your family my deepest compassion for your loss and grief.
Katherine Hamilton, RN MFT
Code Three Racing
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As president of the Peninsula Velo Bicycle Club, I wish to express my deep sympathy and support for
your family in your time of loss. I personally did not know Kristy, but I know she loved cycling as
everyone in our club does which makes us all family. If there is anything PV can do as an organization to
assist you please let me know. You will all be in our thoughts.
Geo Kitta
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Messages = Words fail me. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to to Kristy's family, friends and team
mates.
- Lyne Lamoureux
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Messages = I see so many good things written about Kristy. She was such a good person. A wonderful
life to celebrate but it doesn't change the fact that you've lost your little girl. For this I am so very sorry.
Somebody's Dad
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Messages = With deep regret I express my sadness to a fellow rider and her family and friends on the
opposite coast. I am a resident of New York City and a cyclist on city streets as well as tours near and far.
I have immense respect for competitive riders; they ride in a way that I cannot and I live their
accomplishments through them.
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Messages = Deepest condolences on your loss. Our hearts are with you.
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Messages = My deepest condolences to Kristy's family, loved ones and teammates. I did know Kristy
directly, but I did know of her amazing abilities and her good sportsmanship. I share your pain as Matt
Peterson was my friend and teammate. The only solace I have found in this most tragic and unfortunate
event is this...they both died doing what they loved. They are in my thoughts and I WILL Ride On in their
memory!
My very best regards,
Isaias
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May the love and strength of friends and family see you through this terrible time. My very deepest
sympathy for your tragic loss.
A member of the cycling community
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Messages = The members of the San Jose Bicycle Club are saddened by the loss of two local cyclists.
Our condolences to the families, friends and team mates of Matt and Kristy.
Jonathan Racine
SJBC President
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Dear Gough family. I do not know your daughter but my heart goes out to you. I am a mother myself with
two daughters. I know she is in a good place and I hope and pray you somehow find peace.
April
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Two things I remember were from the same ride around Brisbane a few weeks back.
1. Sam was working for me and Kristy was another "team" for that excercise. Sam laid it down up the hill
and I was struggling to stay on his wheel, when I noticed Kristy with only a slight purse to her lips and
doing most of her breathing through her nose. She turned up the pace and it was only her and I left. I
jumped out of the saddle and just managed to pip her at the line. She had seen me jump and was sitting
on my wheel, in the saddle just matching my pace. While I was out of saddle trying to get every ounce of
power I could. She rode by my just after the finish line and said "that was good, I'm not a sprinter or
anything". Well I am a sprinter and I was near my max output. Kristy wasn't sprinting, she was just riding
on my wheel calm as you like.
2. On that same ride we were stopping after each lap to discuss strategy and so on. After one lap Kristy
rolled up and said, "Are we going to keep going or do we need tp stop and chat ." Hilarious... The whole
rest of ride we joked about needing to express our feelings. She was awesome, funny and talented. The
complete package...
Anthony Borba, Third Pillar
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My deepest condolences on the loss of Kristy. I did not know her but my former Aikido sensei and
mentor, Daniel Brasse was at her side immediately after the crash. I know that she was in good hands and
that Daniel was doing everything he could to keep her alive. I hope this brings some comfort to you.
Leslie Ann Cruz
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I never had the opportunity to meet or ride with Kristy, but as an long time, serious bay area cyclist, my
heart, my love and my condolences go out to family, friends & teammates.
Stephen J.R. Wilde
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I am so sorry about your loss. Kristy was obviously a great athlete and human being. You have my
deepest sympathy.
Alex Wheeler
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I am so sorry for your lost please accept my condolence just a weekend rider God bless you and your
family
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Just a supporter prayer for the whole family mu heart goes out to them God bless
steve hermosillo
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I could not believe what I was reading when I first found out about Kristy. She was so amazingly talented;
disbelief was the only emotion I could find. Last weekend I had the chance to race with her at the
Merced. I felt privileged for the experience to ride with a woman so talented. My Coach Laura
Charameda and I had talked with her regarding joining our women's team. She would have been a
tremendous asset to the team. To think someone with that much talent is gone, just because of a
mistake that took seconds is unfathomable. To any cyclist this news hits close to home. It scares me to
think something like that can happen in one unfortunate second. I wish I could have seen how much
Kristy was going to accomplish
Lindsay Myers
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As a female firefighter/paramedic and as a cyclist turned triathlete, I can relate to Kristy's strength and
passion. My worst fears, as a cyclist and as a paramedic, happened to your daughter. Every time I ride
that winding road, I'll remember. But her spirit must live on, and she can be a motivation to other strong
females out there who have a passion for athletics.
I did not know her or Matt Peterson, but I raced for Roaring Mouse Cycles as it's only female roady during
it's first season, and I am friends with the owners of the bike shop.
Be strong. Be safe. And I don't ever want to see you in my ambulance, unless you're visiting me at the fire
station. (:
Dori
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To Kristy's family and friends, I am so sorry for the shocking loss of your daughter and friend. I can't even
begin to imagine what you are going through. Kristy and Matt's accident has encouraged me to learn
more about safety on the road. I am sure it has done the same for others. I hope you find some peace and
comfort in your memories of Kristy.
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I had yet to ride with Kristy, but heard so many amazing things about her through my Third Pillar
teammates. The energy and excitement she added to our team spoke volumes to her heart, character,
and personality. I wish now more than ever that I had been on one of those rides or seen her as she
crossed the finish line first at one of those races. From all that I can tell, I would have been the better
for it.
My prayers go out to Kristy's family and friends during this sad time.
Daniel Parris, Third Pillar
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I never had the honor of meeting Kristy, but all the same, I have been deeply saddened by her tragic and
incomprehensible passing. I think it's because we all understand why we ride, train, and race and
because of that, are part of one huge family called cycling. Beyond that, though, to lose a fellow
competitor this way is an even harder thing to swallow.
After the Merco crit the Saturday before last, I watched Kristy get her Merco rock trophy and her winner's
jersey, and I remember thinking how happy and confident she looked as she raised her hands with the
others in a victory salute -- after putting down her rock to do so. Those rocks are heavy, no doubt!
My deepest sympathies go to Kristy's family, friends, and teammates. The sadness I'm feeling no doubt
pales in comparison to yours, and I wish you all the strength you can muster to get each other through
this.
Kristy, perhaps the honor of meeting you will be in the company of angels, where you are now. Take care
up there.
Kim Nutt
Stanislaus/Merlock Cycling, Merced
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The cycling fraternity in Perth, Australia offer our condolences and prayers to Kristy's family, friends and
team mates in this terribly difficult time. Strength and Peace be with you all.
Ivan Ruefli - Team Central Systems
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Third Pillar, my heart is with you. Kristy was a very special person and will be missed deeply. Stay strong,
ride hard, be safe.
-Lucia (Los Gatos Bicycle Racing Club)
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Kristy. I love you.
-Elliot
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Quietly, Kristy edged her way to the starting line of the Cherry Pie Criterium Cat4 Women's Race. I was on
the starting line with my team mates when I sensed Kristy's presence behind me...and then a bit
alongside of me. She stood there, quietly. Not rudely. Not arrogant. Just peacefully strong. I somehow
knew she was 'great'. I knew I would offer her my starting position, as somehow the energy she gave off
told me this was the place for her. I was right, of course.
I saw Kristy again at Snelling and in passing wished her good luck now that she was in the CAT3 level.
She smiled this HUGE tender and child like smile and waved at me, or perhaps she was waving on to
signify how simple the race would be for her...and it was.
Real beauty and strength speaks to us quietly...it does not boast or feel the necessity to be out loud.
Kristy was, in my eyes, the epitome of not just a great athelte, but a great human being.
Sinerely, with all depths I have every felt in my marrow and in my heart, I wish you and yours only the best
God and Love can give to you. I am so sorry for your loss...I assure you, she was loved even by those she
barely knew. I miss her, too.
big hugs
sister cyclist,
Carla Cosentino
Code3 Racing
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I didn't know Kristy personally but I am passionate about cycling, promoting and supporting girls and
women, and mother of 2 teenagers. I'm also a new Board Member of Silicon Valley Bicycle Coalition
(svbcbikes.org). We will continue to work towards safer roads and education. I was torn to hear of
Kristy's tragic death on the same road I ride weekly. Perhaps you know the cycling community is by in
large a very supportive group of people by nature. We often chat at stop lights, we wave,smile or nod in
acknowledgment to everyone we may encounter, we offer help to strangers with flat/mechanical problem
and we encourage, support each other and most importantly we have fun together.
My husband and friends will be at the memorial ride, regardless of the weather. Our hearts go out to you
and your family.
Love,
Sue Young
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Kristy's Family,
I could not believe my eyes when I read Kristy had been killed. My heart aches for you so. What a loss. I
remember first meeting Kristy in Mrs. Posey's 3rd grade class. We got in trouble a few times for
giggling. I also remember trying to outrun her in PE when we ran across the field. She was so naturally
fast. She didn't run fast to show us she could beat us all - she had too much grace and humility to do that
- she ran fast because she was a hard worker and put everything she had into whatever she did. Not
that she had to as she was already so talented, but that is Kristy. In 6th grade we had a fun year...poor
Mr. Daniel did not know what he was getting into with us Roosevelt girls. Again, I spent the year both
enjoying and admiring Kristy - intelligent, wicked sense of humor, incredibly athletic and oh so likeable.
She always pushed herself, for example going to Mrs. Wilson's class after school in 8th grade to improve
her Spanish. I was therefore not surprised to hear she chose to go to an all girls boarding school after
Bancroft, nor was I surprised when I heard after college she had become a triathlete. Already so gifted,
she continuously strived to be better intellectually, socially and physically even if it meant taking a
chance. It is tragic that her life was cut short when she had so much going for her, but I take comfort in
that she lived a life of greatness. Always at the top of her game, Kristy will always be an inspiration and I
am so grateful and proud to have known her.
Cristina Yardley
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In the road races this spring I was a mentor in a number of races that Kristy raced and won. Her
aggressive racing and hard riding was done with a smile as you could tell she was just out having a fun
day. What a tremendous talent and nice person. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Laura Charameda
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I had only met Kristy a few times, but I keep remembering the last time I talked to her after the Merco
Road Race. I congratulated her and we reminisced about Pine Flat. I was trying to express my awe of her
riding and she was simply gracious that everyone had worked so well together, contributing to a great
ride. I was amazed by her humility along with her clear talent. I was honored to race with her and
although I did not know her well, I just wanted to let her Mom know how much I was touched by her. She
made a huge impression on me and I will be forever grateful for that.
Sincerely,
Amy Padula
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Kristy as I first met her in elementary school. I was just
heartbroken when I was told it was her, I am so so sad. My thoughts are with you
- Kara
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To the Parents, Family, friends, and teammates of Kristi and Matt:
My heart has been heavy with grief for what you are experiencing. This is indeed a tragedy. One that
resulted in the deaths of two young, promising, individuals and one that might have been prevented.
I want to convey my deepest condolences. If I had the words to give you I'd wish you peace. I'd wish you
the ability to overcome this deep pain in your lives. But I don't have the words. There are none. And the
experience of the loss of a loved one so dear to you is different for everyone. I viewed both the photos
of Kristi and Matt on the websites. It is so sad. They reminded me so much of my own son who died on a
training ride on September 8, 2006 at the hands of an individual under the influence of
Methamphetamine.
I really do know your pain. I wish you the very best. It isn't easy.
Mary Ann Parker
Mother of John Eric Peckham of Alto Velo
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I am so saddened by this and did not know these two wonderful people but my heart just goes out to
their family, teams and loved ones at this time. I plan to participate in the memorial ride on Saturday and
wondered if anyone thought of possibly asking vehicles (folks that do not cycle) to turn on their
headlights on at 3:00 pm on Saturday to show their support. I have many friends who do not cycle but
would like an opportunity to show support. Perhaps an email can go out asking our friends and familes
to turn on their car headlights wherever they are driving that day in honor of these two wonderful lives.
Just some thoughts. Not sure if the media is posting information on their news sites but perhaps they
could spread the word too.
Regards, Theresa
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Until reading the news article about the horrible crash that took your daughter's life, I had never heard of
Kristy Gough. But that hasn't diminished the devastation I feel. I am so profoundly sorry for your loss, and
for the loss of all of those who knew her. My deepest condolences, I pray for you every night.
Kurt Desautels, Colorado
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You guys dont know me. I use to be a bike messenger for over 6 years and race on weekends. My heart
is broken to hear of this horrific tragady. I'm sincerlry sorry for your loss.
Eric Zapata
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The burn, the sweat, the exacting speed, the joy, the pain, the cadence, the drive, the love of Ms. Gough
will be an inspiration to men & women riders...forever. Like so many other races, she's left all of us
behind, and beat us to heaven.
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Deepest sympathy to all friends and family of Kristy. All cyclists admire the commitment that is involved
in reaching the stage of athleticism of Kristy Kough, We all weep at the life cut short, the loss to family
and friends, and the sadness of the positive role model that will no longer be there as an inspiration. I
hope that her spirit will be riding along with everyone providing a wheel to grab and an angel to draft.
Tibor Spoon
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. There are no words, just profound sadness.
I didn't know your daughter, but had she been able to continue to race, we would have raced together
many, many times. She was one of those gifted endurance athletes, someone that fast-twitch types like
myself envy. I mentored in the Early Birds and remember watching her just ride away from the pack. It
was an incredible sight. I don't even think she was breathing hard. She continued to do this in a few
races, but every once in awhile, she would just sit in the pack. From the many photos I've seen, it looked
like she was just biding her time, toying with the field. Waiting for that moment when she could just ride
away from everyone and win. I wish she were still here for you. For all of us. She will always be in your
hearts and with you in spirit. I would love to dedicate the rest of my season to her, but I fear I couldn't do
her justice. Instead, I'll think of her to drive me harder, when I feel I need a rest. "What would Kristy do?
ATTACK!"
Bless you all...
Holly Roberts
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Dear Kristy's family and friends,
My heart goes out to you during this heartbreaking time. I understand the extra pain that comes with this
unexpected death as yesterday was the fourth anniversary of my brother's death which occurred when
he too was hit by a car while riding.
There are really no words to ease the pain you feel now. It helped me to know that, though my brother
went entirely too early, he went doing what he loved. It also helped to remember that he would have
wanted us to honor his life by getting on with our own.
So at your celebration of Kristy's life, I hope you will breathe and take in the words of all those who loved
her.
Sincerely,
Reisa Jaffe
P.S. You may be interested in learning about the Ride of Silence
http://www.rideofsilence.org/main.php
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Dear Kristy’s Family,
One morning four or five months ago at The Five Rings gym I was alone with Kristy. Vladimir gave us a
long weight circuit set and went back to his desk, and as we rotated between the stations we talked. It
was the only time I ever talked to her alone at length, and the sincerity of the things she said made them
especially poignant. I am 55 and confessed to her my dwindling motivation to exercise because the best
I could do at my age was slow the decline. She paused and replied that for her training and racing were
the way she expressed herself. She rephrased it three times, as though the idea was taking better
shape each time she said it. Without saying more she made me realize why I was focusing on the wrong
thing. I think she meant to tell me that the effort and the process are themselves the reward. The power
of her will to succeed was itself the expression of inner spirit and the truest victory. I will never forget
this lesson from Kristy. Kristy was the essence of life and youth and beauty. All of the lives she touched
are richer for it.
Sheldon Finch
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Dear Gough Family,
I met Kristy in 2006 when we both came down to New Zealand for some training. Kristy was such a great
friend to me. I am so sorry that we have lost her. I just wanted you to know that so many people loved
Kristy and that we are all very very upset over her death. It is hard to make sense of this. My thoughts
are with you.
Brandon
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One day last winter, I was riding in the East Bay and bumped into a young woman rider; we started riding
together and rode from Moraga back into Berkeley; she was obviously a super athlete but seemed to
have no ego about her; she was engaging and friendly and complimented me on my strength and bike-
handling skills; I am a 52-year-old woman who started racing last year, and that felt mighty good! we
chatted about all kinds of things and after learning that I was a former runner, she encouraged me to
attempt a triathlon. When we reached Berkeley, we separated and she told her name: Kristy.
A couple of weeks ago, I entered my first race of the seaon in Merced; she was in my race, led the entire
way, easily winning and showing enormous talent. I did not associate these two events until the tragic
accident that took her life.
Kristy had a beautiful soul that shone through, even on her bike, or should I say, particularly on her bike?
May you find peace,
Daniele Rossdeutscher
Left Coast Racing Team
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water. While below, her tanned muscular legs were just tapping out a beautiful tempo cadence. This is
the vision her friends, family, and team will always remember and cherish. She was one of the kindest,
and strongest women to have ever graced the Peloton. In the very large and diverse world of Cycling
her indomitable spirit was both admirable and infectious. At the Five Ring Cycling Center where Kristy
could be found completing a strenuous workout, she showed a compassion that would inspire others
around her. She'd often be seen riding the rollers, patting a struggling rider on the back, and motivating
them to complete their tasks. Kristy would win the primes, as well as the race. Yet, it was never followed
with boasting or bragging, but rather modesty, heart, and compassion. Kristy even said at one point that
she felt bad for winning so often, but truly, she never had anything to feel bad about. She worked for
everything she wanted, and she did it with charisma, class, and charm. She showed more heart then any
member of her team. As one fellow team mate so perfectly put it, "You couldn't help but be a fan". She
was one woman among a group full of men, and yet they all looked up to her. Kristy was always treated as
one of the guys, when a boyish joke was thrown her way, she managed to spin it back and throw every
one of them off balance. Of course she did it with a smile that let you know she had you cornered but in a
playful, kind and caring way. With the Olympic Trials just around the corner it was the hopes of many that
shed make it. The loss of Kristy Gough is a heartfelt one, a true tragedy that is almost too unreal to
believe. Her life touched all of those that were ever graced with her presence. She rides on in the hearts
of those who loved and cared for her, and she'll never be forgotten.
Gaelan Mundorff, Third Pillar
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Kristy's indomitable spirit was both admirable and infectious. I feel blessed and fortunate to have met
her and train with her. My favorite memories of Kristy were riding abreast on the long Sunday training
rides, boy she could REALLY put the hurt on!!!… It was very special to have her pat me on the back while
I was suffering on the rollers in the cycling gym. She had an extraordinary ability to push the limits on the
bike without showing it!!!
I have mixed feelings about the fact that I was the last one to be with her before being taken away by the
ambulance, but I want everyone to know that even with her broken body, she never stopped fighting.
Kristy was a special human being and will remain in my thoughts and prayers for the rest of my days on
this earth.
-Daniel Brasse, Third Pillar
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I'll never forget the first time I saw Kristy this season; it was at Cantua Creek, my first race of the year.
Quiet, reserved, focused, she sat calmly on her bike while we all chatted and joked around, as the field
for Cat 4 women was pretty small that day. Some of the women were asking each other who she was,
where she came from, and someone knew & mentioned she was a professional triathlete. We had fun
that first windy lap, and Kristy hung in there with us long enough to rotate through the pace line up to the
turn around.
After that, she must have finally been bored with the pace AND the talking, because as we approached
the first of two turn arounds, in one dramatic turn of the wheels, she was GONE. And I mean, "see you
later, I'm outta here, gone." My team mate yelled out jokingly, "hey, where does she think she's going?"
And we all laughed, knowing that we'd just been witness to something pretty spectacular. Later, she
completed against us at Cherry Pie, and I saw her again at Snelling.
The last time I saw Kristy was bright and early Saturday, the morning of Menlo Park Grand Prix. I did the
medical team support for the day and was unloading my medical supplies. She rolled by on her bike and
looked straight at me; I said hi, she said hi and had that look on her face like, "how do I know you?" And
that was it.
She probably didn't remember it was me, to her immediate left on the pace line that morning at Cantua
Creek, singing the first few versus of the Italian song, Ave Maria. But I do. I'll never forget that, or forget
her.
My heart aches for her mother and father, as I have an adult son that I cherish with all of my being. I off
you and your family my deepest compassion for your loss and grief.
Katherine Hamilton, RN MFT
Code Three Racing
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As president of the Peninsula Velo Bicycle Club, I wish to express my deep sympathy and support for
your family in your time of loss. I personally did not know Kristy, but I know she loved cycling as
everyone in our club does which makes us all family. If there is anything PV can do as an organization to
assist you please let me know. You will all be in our thoughts.
Geo Kitta
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Messages = Words fail me. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to to Kristy's family, friends and team
mates.
- Lyne Lamoureux
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Messages = I see so many good things written about Kristy. She was such a good person. A wonderful
life to celebrate but it doesn't change the fact that you've lost your little girl. For this I am so very sorry.
Somebody's Dad
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Messages = With deep regret I express my sadness to a fellow rider and her family and friends on the
opposite coast. I am a resident of New York City and a cyclist on city streets as well as tours near and far.
I have immense respect for competitive riders; they ride in a way that I cannot and I live their
accomplishments through them.
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Messages = Deepest condolences on your loss. Our hearts are with you.
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Messages = My deepest condolences to Kristy's family, loved ones and teammates. I did know Kristy
directly, but I did know of her amazing abilities and her good sportsmanship. I share your pain as Matt
Peterson was my friend and teammate. The only solace I have found in this most tragic and unfortunate
event is this...they both died doing what they loved. They are in my thoughts and I WILL Ride On in their
memory!
My very best regards,
Isaias
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May the love and strength of friends and family see you through this terrible time. My very deepest
sympathy for your tragic loss.
A member of the cycling community
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Messages = The members of the San Jose Bicycle Club are saddened by the loss of two local cyclists.
Our condolences to the families, friends and team mates of Matt and Kristy.
Jonathan Racine
SJBC President
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Dear Gough family. I do not know your daughter but my heart goes out to you. I am a mother myself with
two daughters. I know she is in a good place and I hope and pray you somehow find peace.
April
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Two things I remember were from the same ride around Brisbane a few weeks back.
1. Sam was working for me and Kristy was another "team" for that excercise. Sam laid it down up the hill
and I was struggling to stay on his wheel, when I noticed Kristy with only a slight purse to her lips and
doing most of her breathing through her nose. She turned up the pace and it was only her and I left. I
jumped out of the saddle and just managed to pip her at the line. She had seen me jump and was sitting
on my wheel, in the saddle just matching my pace. While I was out of saddle trying to get every ounce of
power I could. She rode by my just after the finish line and said "that was good, I'm not a sprinter or
anything". Well I am a sprinter and I was near my max output. Kristy wasn't sprinting, she was just riding
on my wheel calm as you like.
2. On that same ride we were stopping after each lap to discuss strategy and so on. After one lap Kristy
rolled up and said, "Are we going to keep going or do we need tp stop and chat ." Hilarious... The whole
rest of ride we joked about needing to express our feelings. She was awesome, funny and talented. The
complete package...
Anthony Borba, Third Pillar
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My deepest condolences on the loss of Kristy. I did not know her but my former Aikido sensei and
mentor, Daniel Brasse was at her side immediately after the crash. I know that she was in good hands and
that Daniel was doing everything he could to keep her alive. I hope this brings some comfort to you.
Leslie Ann Cruz
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I never had the opportunity to meet or ride with Kristy, but as an long time, serious bay area cyclist, my
heart, my love and my condolences go out to family, friends & teammates.
Stephen J.R. Wilde
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I am so sorry about your loss. Kristy was obviously a great athlete and human being. You have my
deepest sympathy.
Alex Wheeler
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I am so sorry for your lost please accept my condolence just a weekend rider God bless you and your
family
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Just a supporter prayer for the whole family mu heart goes out to them God bless
steve hermosillo
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I could not believe what I was reading when I first found out about Kristy. She was so amazingly talented;
disbelief was the only emotion I could find. Last weekend I had the chance to race with her at the
Merced. I felt privileged for the experience to ride with a woman so talented. My Coach Laura
Charameda and I had talked with her regarding joining our women's team. She would have been a
tremendous asset to the team. To think someone with that much talent is gone, just because of a
mistake that took seconds is unfathomable. To any cyclist this news hits close to home. It scares me to
think something like that can happen in one unfortunate second. I wish I could have seen how much
Kristy was going to accomplish
Lindsay Myers
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As a female firefighter/paramedic and as a cyclist turned triathlete, I can relate to Kristy's strength and
passion. My worst fears, as a cyclist and as a paramedic, happened to your daughter. Every time I ride
that winding road, I'll remember. But her spirit must live on, and she can be a motivation to other strong
females out there who have a passion for athletics.
I did not know her or Matt Peterson, but I raced for Roaring Mouse Cycles as it's only female roady during
it's first season, and I am friends with the owners of the bike shop.
Be strong. Be safe. And I don't ever want to see you in my ambulance, unless you're visiting me at the fire
station. (:
Dori
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To Kristy's family and friends, I am so sorry for the shocking loss of your daughter and friend. I can't even
begin to imagine what you are going through. Kristy and Matt's accident has encouraged me to learn
more about safety on the road. I am sure it has done the same for others. I hope you find some peace and
comfort in your memories of Kristy.
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I had yet to ride with Kristy, but heard so many amazing things about her through my Third Pillar
teammates. The energy and excitement she added to our team spoke volumes to her heart, character,
and personality. I wish now more than ever that I had been on one of those rides or seen her as she
crossed the finish line first at one of those races. From all that I can tell, I would have been the better
for it.
My prayers go out to Kristy's family and friends during this sad time.
Daniel Parris, Third Pillar
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I never had the honor of meeting Kristy, but all the same, I have been deeply saddened by her tragic and
incomprehensible passing. I think it's because we all understand why we ride, train, and race and
because of that, are part of one huge family called cycling. Beyond that, though, to lose a fellow
competitor this way is an even harder thing to swallow.
After the Merco crit the Saturday before last, I watched Kristy get her Merco rock trophy and her winner's
jersey, and I remember thinking how happy and confident she looked as she raised her hands with the
others in a victory salute -- after putting down her rock to do so. Those rocks are heavy, no doubt!
My deepest sympathies go to Kristy's family, friends, and teammates. The sadness I'm feeling no doubt
pales in comparison to yours, and I wish you all the strength you can muster to get each other through
this.
Kristy, perhaps the honor of meeting you will be in the company of angels, where you are now. Take care
up there.
Kim Nutt
Stanislaus/Merlock Cycling, Merced
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The cycling fraternity in Perth, Australia offer our condolences and prayers to Kristy's family, friends and
team mates in this terribly difficult time. Strength and Peace be with you all.
Ivan Ruefli - Team Central Systems
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Third Pillar, my heart is with you. Kristy was a very special person and will be missed deeply. Stay strong,
ride hard, be safe.
-Lucia (Los Gatos Bicycle Racing Club)
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Kristy. I love you.
-Elliot
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Quietly, Kristy edged her way to the starting line of the Cherry Pie Criterium Cat4 Women's Race. I was on
the starting line with my team mates when I sensed Kristy's presence behind me...and then a bit
alongside of me. She stood there, quietly. Not rudely. Not arrogant. Just peacefully strong. I somehow
knew she was 'great'. I knew I would offer her my starting position, as somehow the energy she gave off
told me this was the place for her. I was right, of course.
I saw Kristy again at Snelling and in passing wished her good luck now that she was in the CAT3 level.
She smiled this HUGE tender and child like smile and waved at me, or perhaps she was waving on to
signify how simple the race would be for her...and it was.
Real beauty and strength speaks to us quietly...it does not boast or feel the necessity to be out loud.
Kristy was, in my eyes, the epitome of not just a great athelte, but a great human being.
Sinerely, with all depths I have every felt in my marrow and in my heart, I wish you and yours only the best
God and Love can give to you. I am so sorry for your loss...I assure you, she was loved even by those she
barely knew. I miss her, too.
big hugs
sister cyclist,
Carla Cosentino
Code3 Racing
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I didn't know Kristy personally but I am passionate about cycling, promoting and supporting girls and
women, and mother of 2 teenagers. I'm also a new Board Member of Silicon Valley Bicycle Coalition
(svbcbikes.org). We will continue to work towards safer roads and education. I was torn to hear of
Kristy's tragic death on the same road I ride weekly. Perhaps you know the cycling community is by in
large a very supportive group of people by nature. We often chat at stop lights, we wave,smile or nod in
acknowledgment to everyone we may encounter, we offer help to strangers with flat/mechanical problem
and we encourage, support each other and most importantly we have fun together.
My husband and friends will be at the memorial ride, regardless of the weather. Our hearts go out to you
and your family.
Love,
Sue Young
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Kristy's Family,
I could not believe my eyes when I read Kristy had been killed. My heart aches for you so. What a loss. I
remember first meeting Kristy in Mrs. Posey's 3rd grade class. We got in trouble a few times for
giggling. I also remember trying to outrun her in PE when we ran across the field. She was so naturally
fast. She didn't run fast to show us she could beat us all - she had too much grace and humility to do that
- she ran fast because she was a hard worker and put everything she had into whatever she did. Not
that she had to as she was already so talented, but that is Kristy. In 6th grade we had a fun year...poor
Mr. Daniel did not know what he was getting into with us Roosevelt girls. Again, I spent the year both
enjoying and admiring Kristy - intelligent, wicked sense of humor, incredibly athletic and oh so likeable.
She always pushed herself, for example going to Mrs. Wilson's class after school in 8th grade to improve
her Spanish. I was therefore not surprised to hear she chose to go to an all girls boarding school after
Bancroft, nor was I surprised when I heard after college she had become a triathlete. Already so gifted,
she continuously strived to be better intellectually, socially and physically even if it meant taking a
chance. It is tragic that her life was cut short when she had so much going for her, but I take comfort in
that she lived a life of greatness. Always at the top of her game, Kristy will always be an inspiration and I
am so grateful and proud to have known her.
Cristina Yardley
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In the road races this spring I was a mentor in a number of races that Kristy raced and won. Her
aggressive racing and hard riding was done with a smile as you could tell she was just out having a fun
day. What a tremendous talent and nice person. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Laura Charameda
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I had only met Kristy a few times, but I keep remembering the last time I talked to her after the Merco
Road Race. I congratulated her and we reminisced about Pine Flat. I was trying to express my awe of her
riding and she was simply gracious that everyone had worked so well together, contributing to a great
ride. I was amazed by her humility along with her clear talent. I was honored to race with her and
although I did not know her well, I just wanted to let her Mom know how much I was touched by her. She
made a huge impression on me and I will be forever grateful for that.
Sincerely,
Amy Padula
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Kristy as I first met her in elementary school. I was just
heartbroken when I was told it was her, I am so so sad. My thoughts are with you
- Kara
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To the Parents, Family, friends, and teammates of Kristi and Matt:
My heart has been heavy with grief for what you are experiencing. This is indeed a tragedy. One that
resulted in the deaths of two young, promising, individuals and one that might have been prevented.
I want to convey my deepest condolences. If I had the words to give you I'd wish you peace. I'd wish you
the ability to overcome this deep pain in your lives. But I don't have the words. There are none. And the
experience of the loss of a loved one so dear to you is different for everyone. I viewed both the photos
of Kristi and Matt on the websites. It is so sad. They reminded me so much of my own son who died on a
training ride on September 8, 2006 at the hands of an individual under the influence of
Methamphetamine.
I really do know your pain. I wish you the very best. It isn't easy.
Mary Ann Parker
Mother of John Eric Peckham of Alto Velo
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I am so saddened by this and did not know these two wonderful people but my heart just goes out to
their family, teams and loved ones at this time. I plan to participate in the memorial ride on Saturday and
wondered if anyone thought of possibly asking vehicles (folks that do not cycle) to turn on their
headlights on at 3:00 pm on Saturday to show their support. I have many friends who do not cycle but
would like an opportunity to show support. Perhaps an email can go out asking our friends and familes
to turn on their car headlights wherever they are driving that day in honor of these two wonderful lives.
Just some thoughts. Not sure if the media is posting information on their news sites but perhaps they
could spread the word too.
Regards, Theresa
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Until reading the news article about the horrible crash that took your daughter's life, I had never heard of
Kristy Gough. But that hasn't diminished the devastation I feel. I am so profoundly sorry for your loss, and
for the loss of all of those who knew her. My deepest condolences, I pray for you every night.
Kurt Desautels, Colorado
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You guys dont know me. I use to be a bike messenger for over 6 years and race on weekends. My heart
is broken to hear of this horrific tragady. I'm sincerlry sorry for your loss.
Eric Zapata
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The burn, the sweat, the exacting speed, the joy, the pain, the cadence, the drive, the love of Ms. Gough
will be an inspiration to men & women riders...forever. Like so many other races, she's left all of us
behind, and beat us to heaven.
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Deepest sympathy to all friends and family of Kristy. All cyclists admire the commitment that is involved
in reaching the stage of athleticism of Kristy Kough, We all weep at the life cut short, the loss to family
and friends, and the sadness of the positive role model that will no longer be there as an inspiration. I
hope that her spirit will be riding along with everyone providing a wheel to grab and an angel to draft.
Tibor Spoon
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. There are no words, just profound sadness.
I didn't know your daughter, but had she been able to continue to race, we would have raced together
many, many times. She was one of those gifted endurance athletes, someone that fast-twitch types like
myself envy. I mentored in the Early Birds and remember watching her just ride away from the pack. It
was an incredible sight. I don't even think she was breathing hard. She continued to do this in a few
races, but every once in awhile, she would just sit in the pack. From the many photos I've seen, it looked
like she was just biding her time, toying with the field. Waiting for that moment when she could just ride
away from everyone and win. I wish she were still here for you. For all of us. She will always be in your
hearts and with you in spirit. I would love to dedicate the rest of my season to her, but I fear I couldn't do
her justice. Instead, I'll think of her to drive me harder, when I feel I need a rest. "What would Kristy do?
ATTACK!"
Bless you all...
Holly Roberts
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Dear Kristy's family and friends,
My heart goes out to you during this heartbreaking time. I understand the extra pain that comes with this
unexpected death as yesterday was the fourth anniversary of my brother's death which occurred when
he too was hit by a car while riding.
There are really no words to ease the pain you feel now. It helped me to know that, though my brother
went entirely too early, he went doing what he loved. It also helped to remember that he would have
wanted us to honor his life by getting on with our own.
So at your celebration of Kristy's life, I hope you will breathe and take in the words of all those who loved
her.
Sincerely,
Reisa Jaffe
P.S. You may be interested in learning about the Ride of Silence
http://www.rideofsilence.org/main.php
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Dear Kristy’s Family,
One morning four or five months ago at The Five Rings gym I was alone with Kristy. Vladimir gave us a
long weight circuit set and went back to his desk, and as we rotated between the stations we talked. It
was the only time I ever talked to her alone at length, and the sincerity of the things she said made them
especially poignant. I am 55 and confessed to her my dwindling motivation to exercise because the best
I could do at my age was slow the decline. She paused and replied that for her training and racing were
the way she expressed herself. She rephrased it three times, as though the idea was taking better
shape each time she said it. Without saying more she made me realize why I was focusing on the wrong
thing. I think she meant to tell me that the effort and the process are themselves the reward. The power
of her will to succeed was itself the expression of inner spirit and the truest victory. I will never forget
this lesson from Kristy. Kristy was the essence of life and youth and beauty. All of the lives she touched
are richer for it.
Sheldon Finch
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Dear Gough Family,
I met Kristy in 2006 when we both came down to New Zealand for some training. Kristy was such a great
friend to me. I am so sorry that we have lost her. I just wanted you to know that so many people loved
Kristy and that we are all very very upset over her death. It is hard to make sense of this. My thoughts
are with you.
Brandon
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One day last winter, I was riding in the East Bay and bumped into a young woman rider; we started riding
together and rode from Moraga back into Berkeley; she was obviously a super athlete but seemed to
have no ego about her; she was engaging and friendly and complimented me on my strength and bike-
handling skills; I am a 52-year-old woman who started racing last year, and that felt mighty good! we
chatted about all kinds of things and after learning that I was a former runner, she encouraged me to
attempt a triathlon. When we reached Berkeley, we separated and she told her name: Kristy.
A couple of weeks ago, I entered my first race of the seaon in Merced; she was in my race, led the entire
way, easily winning and showing enormous talent. I did not associate these two events until the tragic
accident that took her life.
Kristy had a beautiful soul that shone through, even on her bike, or should I say, particularly on her bike?
May you find peace,
Daniele Rossdeutscher
Left Coast Racing Team
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